How many times have you been faced with two choices, and neither one of them were particularly interesting to you?
This tends to happen when we view the world through an either-or lens—it’s either this or that. When we look at things through either-or, we find that we severely limit the potential of anything that’s in front of us because that’s all we can see, the either or.
But when you can change how you think about something, how you feel about something, and be open to developing a both and kind of mentality, the world of possibilities opens up. A world of opportunity opens up.
And so, the next time you think you don’t have enough choices. Start with what you’re thinking about those choices.
I’m Roberta Fernandez, Your Ability Activator.
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